Before you arrive
Choose a parish and confirm its current Mass time on its own website. Arriving a little early gives you time to find a seat, look at a worship aid and speak to an usher. You can simply say that it is your first visit. You do not have to introduce yourself to the whole congregation.
Silence your phone and give yourself time to notice the space. A printed booklet, missal or screen may help you follow the prayers. If you have mobility, hearing or other access needs, contact the parish ahead of time about the entrance and available assistance.
The shape of the Mass
In the Roman Rite, the opening prayers lead into the Liturgy of the Word: Scripture readings, the Gospel and a homily. The Liturgy of the Eucharist follows, with the preparation of the gifts, the Eucharistic Prayer and Communion. A blessing and dismissal conclude the celebration. The US bishops’ Order of Mass gives a fuller outline.
This guide describes the Roman Rite. An Eastern Catholic parish may celebrate the Divine Liturgy with a different order, music and gestures. Its parish community can help a visitor follow that tradition.
Following along without pressure
You will see people stand, sit and kneel at different points. Watch those around you, follow the worship aid where it is helpful, and take the time you need. If a posture is difficult or painful, remain seated. You can listen to unfamiliar prayers and join in the responses as you become comfortable.
Mass is a shared act of worship. Save photographs and conversations for an appropriate time, and follow any instructions about photography. A quiet moment before or after Mass is often a better time to look closely at the building.
When it is time for Communion
Attendance at Mass and reception of Holy Communion are distinct. The Church has particular requirements for receiving Communion. If you are visiting, are not Catholic or are unsure whether you should receive, remain in your place and pray, and speak to the priest privately about your situation. The US bishops explain the discipline in their Guidelines for the Reception of Communion.
You do not need to make an on-the-spot decision by copying the person ahead of you. Staying in the pew is a simple way to take part in this time of prayer.
After your visit
If you would like to return, note the parish’s contact details and regular schedule. For questions about becoming Catholic, ask the parish about its process of Christian initiation, often called OCIA. If you are returning after a long time away, tell the priest that directly; it gives him a clear place to begin the conversation.
You can also read what a parish is to understand the community behind the building.
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