Letter to the Editor: When Faith becomes a voice against domestic violence

A letter published by the Diocese of Port of Spain argues that the Church must move beyond prayer to actively challenge domestic violence, support survivors, and hold perpetrators accountable. Writing during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the author notes that domestic violence in Trinidad and Tobago is a social, public health, and moral issue rather than a private family matter.

The author suggests that because religious leaders are often the first people individuals approach during relationship crises, congregations should serve as places of refuge and intervention. The letter warns against interpreting religious teachings on marriage and forgiveness in ways that encourage victims to stay in dangerous situations. Specifically, the author states that victims should not be told to pray harder, men experiencing abuse should not be told to be stronger, and children witnessing violence should not be taught that such issues are strictly between adults.

The letter clarifies that while Christianity emphasizes forgiveness, it must not be confused with permission for continued abuse. The author concludes that forgiveness is distinct from remaining vulnerable to violence and that true reconciliation requires accountability.